【吉安风俗】送肚礼
（王聪）女初孕，娘家向女家送肚礼，宴宾客，将猪肚切成肚片，猪肉切成肉片，糯米和豆豉、盐煮成粥，一鲁（大）碗粥铺上4片肉，1片肚，按门户送给村民吃。孕妇必吃肚尖，寓“胎健产顺”。
10月7日（国庆长假最后一天），应妹妹相邀，我们一家还有老母亲、姐姐、妹妹、五弟媳及侄子侄女，大概2桌人，驱车一同前往青原区富滩镇，特地到外甥女家送肚礼。妹妹在文陂镇订做了油米果，顺便将油米果取下带外甥女家。按吉安乡村风俗，女方送肚礼要准备油米果，男方村里有多少户，就要给每户送6个油米果。女方家只要把油米果按男方家计划的数量如数送达，分发油米果的事就是男方家负责了。男方家一般会在午餐前将油米果挨家逐户全部发放完，村里人得了油米果，都会说些祝福的话。
外甥女小燕的送肚礼仪式很隆重，女方家前来祝贺，进门爆竹相迎，回家又有爆竹相送。而且男方家在祠堂里办了酒席，听说厨师还是专门请来的，菜也弄得好吃，都说不亚于城市大洒店的口味。外甥女小燕是在九江学院读完大学的，我那时恰巧也在九江工作，所以对外甥女关注关心也要多点，而外甥女对我的尊重、爱戴要比其他4个舅舅更加真诚些。
感觉今天为外甥女小燕的送肚礼有意义，用天伦之乐来形容不为过。看着外甥女隆起的腹部，我在想：时间过得真快，昨天还是那个小姑娘的燕子，如今她马上就要当妈妈了，是外甥女长大了，或是我自己老了….祝愿外甥女燕子胎健产顺，生个白白胖胖的宝宝吧……
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送肚礼一般都是女方女的去，但今天邀做舅舅的我去是特例特批的！https://app.maidi.me/public/emotion/face_007.png 外甥女嫁的人家也好，夫妻俩现在在广东发展，年收入也不错，爷爷还是老村支部书记。 确实看着好小 风吹猪儿跑 发表于 2021-10-07 19:27
确实看着好小
25岁了 凯歌嘹亮 发表于 2021-10-7 19:20
送肚礼一般都是女方女的去，但今天邀做舅舅的我去是特例特批的！
吉水阜田人叫送猪肚鸡 gxhcjg 发表于 2021-10-07 19:34
吉水阜田人叫送猪肚鸡
但礼仪都是一样的吧？ H这种酒席不安席吧 https://app.maidi.me/public/emotion/face_068.png挺好玩，有趣！ 凯歌嘹亮 发表于 2021-10-7 19:35
但礼仪都是一样的吧？
是一样的。
不过现在送猪肚鸡的人很少了，因为大部分的人都是生了孩子再来做结婚酒。